Although the book Good to Great is part of another class I feel like the two classes I am taking at this time build on and support one another. The Stockdale Paradox means a lot to me because I think that it is what we are taught through the gospel of Jesus Christ. We are never to lose FAITH no matter how hard things are, yet we must be willing to confront the brutal facts of what our current situation is and do all in our power to work through them and the Lord has promised as long as we yoke ourselves to Him then we will be able to endure and overcome. I also liked from the book the teachings of being a level 5 leader, once again I think this goes hand in hand with the teachings of the Savior. We don't force people to be motivated and we don't look for all the glory. We try to help others reach their potential through persuasion and we realize that it is through others that we are able to learn and reach our potential. If we seek for the glory then we take the glory away from Him who all glory belongs to. I feel so blessed to be able to have gospel teachings integrated into my courses, the talks by both Elder Wirthlin and Brother Christensen remind us of why we are here and the importance of making choices that will bring us eternal happiness not earthly pleasure or prestige.
From the book Good to Great The
Stockdale Paradox "Retain FAITH that you will prevail in the end,
regardless of the difficulties AND at the same time confront the most brutal
facts of your current reality, whatever they might be."
Create a culture wherein people have
a tremendous opportunity to be hear and, ultimately, for the truth to be
heard. Creating a climate where the truth is heard involves four
basic practices: 1. Lead with questions, not answers, 2. Engage in
dialogue and debate, not coercion, 3. Conduct autopsies, without blame, 4.
Build red flag mechanisms that turn information into information that
cannot be ignored.
Spending time and energy trying to
"motivate" people is a waste of effort. The real question is
not, "how do we motivate our people?" If you have the right people,
they will be self-motivated. The key is to not de-motivate them.
One of the primary ways to de-motivate people is to ignore the
brutal facts of reality.
Little Things Are Important Elder Wirthlin
Each minute is a little thing and
yet, with respect to our personal productivity, to manage the minute is the
secret of success.
Do you take the time to remember
some of the simple courtesies that are so important in relationships with
others? Do you remember the smile, the compliment, the positive comment, and
the word of encouragement? We should do these important little things without
hesitation.
When creating our spiritual bodies,
our Heavenly Father took great care to place in each of us every little
potential of character, of compassion, joy, and of knowledge that we would need
for our personal growth. The beginnings of each godly character trait is in
each and every one of us. With that assurance, we are truly able to become gods
as he has commanded us. Do you recall the Savior’s words to the Nephites, “What
manner of men ought ye to be? Verily I say unto you, even as I am” (3 Ne.
27:27).
How will you measure your life? Clayton Christensen
If you want your kids to have strong
self- esteem and confidence that they can solve hard problems, those qualities
won’t magically materialize in high school. You have to design them into your
family’s culture—and you have to think about this very early on. Like employees,
children build self-esteem by doing things that are hard and learning what
works.
One characteristic of these humble
people stood out: They had a high level of self-esteem.
…if you have a humble eagerness to
learn something from everybody, your learning opportunities will be unlimited.
Generally, you can be humble only if you feel really good about yourself—and
you want to help those around you feel really good about themselves, too. When
we see people acting in an abusive, arrogant, or demeaning manner toward
others, their behavior almost always is a symptom of their lack of self-esteem.
They need to put someone else down to feel good about themselves.
I’ve concluded that the metric by
which God will assess my life isn’t dollars but the individual people whose
lives I’ve touched.